Question: Is there a mitzvah to stand for a woman who
is aחכמה בתורה or elderly just as there is a mitzah to stand
for a Rabbi who is a Talmid Chacham or elderly? Similarly, is there a special
mitzvah for a girl to give kavod to her Morah? Is it permitted for her to call
her Morah by her first name?
Answer: It would seem that we can deduce from the Talmud
that there is an obligation to stand up for an אשה חכמה בתורה based on the passage in Mesechet Shavuot
(30b) where Rav Nachman stood up in respect for the wife of Rav Huna since אשת חבר הרי היא כחבר , the
wife of a talmid chacham is treaded like a talmid chacham herself. The Rishonim
on this passage explain that this obligation to stand for a talmid chacham is
Biblical in nature. One might argue that the same obligation should exist when
the woman is a talmid chachama in her own right. However, one might also
distinguish and say that the obligation to stand for the wife of a talmid
chacham is due to the respect required for the husband who is a talmid chacham
and we say אשתו כגופו, the
wife is treated as a partner of her husband. Rav Ovadia says it would seem
clear from Maran Beit Yosef in Shulchan Aruch that there is no independent
mitzvah to stand for the wife of the talmid chacham, but rather it is only as she
is an extension of him and part of respecting him. In fact, he rules that one
only stands for her while the husband is alive, but after his death one would
not be obligated to do so.
However, the Sefer
Chasidim argues that the obligation to stand for an אשה חכמה בתורה stems from another source, the obligation
to stand for the elderly. The pasuk says מפני שיבה תקום והדרת פני זקן, and he says this applies not only to an
elderly man, but even to an elderly woman. Thus just as you must stand for an
elderly woman, you have to show the same respect for an אשה חכמה בתורה. Rav Ovadia quotes poskim who say this
obligation begins when a woman is seventy years old. Whereas the obligation to
stand for the wife of a talmid chacham stems from the need to give respect to
her husband, the obligation to stand for a elderly woman comes from the need to
show her respect in her own right. Similarly, an אשה חכמה בתורה deserves to be show kavod as well.
While Rav Ovadia quotes
the Ben Ishe Chai who argues with the above, he quotes a litany of other poskim
who agree that there is an obligation to stand and show proper respect to an אשה חכמה בתורה. If this
were even to be a halchic doubt, a safek, Rav Ovadia concludes we would say ספק דאורייתא לחומרא, that a
doubt in a Biblical law must move us to be strict.
Rav Ovadia further states
that there is definitely an obligation to stand for your Morah who teaches you
Torah. This is because the source for a standing for your Rabbi is that his
teaching you Torah is leading you to עולם הבא; the same is true when it is your Morah
who is teaching you Torah. With this in mind, Rav Ovadia concludes that just as
you cannot call your Rabbi by his first name, you cannot call your Morah by her
first name.